Re: Crossing Hard Lines
whippingboy
03/08/2025 08:48 AM
Hard limits are critical for me. I session for 2 to 4 hours at a time. Once in deep subspace, I can't speak for myself. I need to know that I am with a Mistress who will respect the limits we've discussed. I've been fortunate to have mostly wonderful experiences. There was a Mistress who wanted to do strap on, which was a limit for me. She talked to me about it before and after session a few times. I respected that she didn't introduce this in the middle of a session where she could have asked to cut off my toes and I would have nodded yes. Eventually, I did agree. It was okay but not something I'd do again.