Domspeak Forums Discussions Lobby How'd You Get So Freaky?

I definitely fall into the "hard wired" camp on this one! From my earliest sexual awakenings the idea of bondage, discipline and of women in boots and fur coats was instantly arousing. No abuse of any kind in my upbringing. In fact it was a stereotypical upper middle class suburban childhood in a nuclear family.

The only childhood factor that might remotely be connected is that my parents were relatively permissive and never used corporal punishment.....and my mother was stylish and often wore furs......... Classic Freud anyone? :grin: :D