Everyone should conduct business in a way that they are comfortable. That goes for prodoms and clients. She may have had a bad experience. It is difficult to tell. My experience as a very busy prodom is that most clients are very good people. My screening consisted of brief interviews and instinct. Treating a client like a potential criminal would have felt like throwing a wet blanket on a good time. There were two brushes, one of which was only on line, but nothing of any magnitude. But, I can understand if a dom has a single bad experience that she would be very cautious. My advise is that if you really want to see her, talk to her about it. If it doesn't work out, put it behind you. It sounds as if you have a lot of opportunity. Good luck with however you decide to proceed.
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