Forgive me for talking about you in third person but accidental femdom makes me think about how you and I met. So, I will share that with the posters here.
Back in the 90's when the internet was new I needed a website. Back then, it wasn't easy to build on your own. So, I called a company who did this, explained my business and they sent Tristin to the studio to sell their services. I was looking at this as all business and thinking the sales rep wouldn't care what type of business I had as long as he got the sale. It was a busy day and I had less than 2 hours between sessions, so I remained in my leather dominatrix wardrobe. I didn't have an office set up yet as my studio was new so, I showed Tristin to the classroom. I sat at the over sized teacher's desk and he squeezed into the small student's desk. I was completely oblivious to how inappropriate this was in business, even as a customer. In fact, I didn't think much about it until Tristin reminded me of it recently. Then, I had to laugh.
As it turned out, I didn't go with his company because their price was on the high side. He did, however, start coming to my parties and on a retreat I was asked to host in Jamaica. At the retreat, he showed up and the hotel was full. I will spare you the long story on how that happened. Anyway, one of the doms from my studio and I were sharing a room so we let him stay with us. Once again oblivious, I gave him a pillow and blanket to sleep on the floor at the foot of my bed. Over the course of the week, if memory serves, he ended up sleeping at the foot of mine or my dom friend's bed. This seemed so normal to me at the time. I didn't look at it as femdom, even though I was a practicing prodom at the time.
Over 25 years later, he and I remain close friends. I have to laugh at the things I was oblivious to as a young woman. No doubt, I've been the culprit of "Accidental FemDom" more times than I remember.
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