It was the topic of whether or not it is cheating for a married man to secretively session that was discussed several times. But, that has been over the course of 20 years. Next week, I will fire up a thread on it. I tend to be an indulgent person. So, I say do both. Have a harsh session with an experienced prodom and a full service one with someone who can also be dominant as well. Life is short. We should all try to get in as much as possible.