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Has anyone else noticed the difference with Goddess drinks them before a golden shower? It takes away the enjoyment of Her nectar. I want to request that She refrain from this before we engage in this exchange but don't want to be rude. Has anyone had similar experiences?

This post got me to stop lurking and sign up. Aspartame is 200 times sweeter than sugar. The body does not metabolize it. It is peed out. When I book a session I ask the Mistress if she minds refraining. I've never received a negative respond. The way I look at it is that I'm spending a lot of money for the experience. It isn't an unreasonable request. You wouldn't be out of line to ask.

Yes_G great question. POM, welcome! I'm far from being an expert. I've only done GS with two Mistresses that I know very well, both very health conscious and handled me with care. The first Mistress, now retired, is a longtime athlete and fitness trainer. She knew my limits and was surprised when, in the middle of a session, she had to relieve herself. I was in deep subspace and asked to watch, so she ordered me to crawl in. A day or two later in our usual post mortem phone call I asked if she would GS my chest and genitals the next time. She chuckled, but knowing me the Mistress said, "Let me think about it. I'm afraid you'll get 'squirrelly' on me." She agreed the next time I was in her town, explaining beforehand she only drank water. Ignorant and in subspace, I said to myself, "whatever." She sprayed my lips a couple of times before she retired.

A couple of years later I got reacquainted with my longtime Mistress who I have discussed here before. I sprang the GS question on her and she had no hesitation about it, saying she would only drink plain herb tea to prepare. Again, horny and stupid, the info meant nothing to me. Like the fitness Mistress I trusted her health practices. With her like the fitness Mistress, it has been mostly body GS, but my longtime domina has let me sip some of her nectar. Amazing what you learn on this site...

I've only enjoyed this from an unprompted scene. It was after a heavy bondage and corporal session. The Mistress lowered me from a hanging ankle suspension to the point that my face was upwards and flat on the floor. She pissed all over my face and chest. It wasn't about consumption, which didn't happen. I knew it was about completing the total surrender. It was one of the most gratifying experiences in all.

When it comes to requests and questions, I don't hold back. A good fit is important for me to let go.

When I was active in sessions, this was requested a few times. I never found it offensive. I hope it works out for you.

Welcome to the forum!

I have enjoyed GS play a number of times with several different Dommes who also seemed to enjoy engaging in GS. These experiences have usually been between what I think are two extremes. Dommes usually made a point of telling me that they had been drinking water prior to and during the session and that I should have no problem with their "nectar". The opposite was with a Domme what I got to know pretty well and was always coming up with ways to surprise me by taking any session request I might make to another level. In response to my GS request she let me know that she had coffee and asparagus earlier that day for lunch and that no matter how difficult it might for me be she expected me to drink every drop.


GS play was always very erotic to me, though sometimes the cleanup afterward was not nearly as sexy!

Jack

That is such a hot tactic. Under those directives from a Goddess, it wouldn't matter to me. Thanks for your post. It has me rethinking my entire approach to g/s. The key would be the Goddess initiating it herself.

Interesting. Thanks for posting this. I didn't know the science behind it.

That sounds like a hot scene. Spontaneity creates the best experiences. I like to give Goddess the tools and let her build the scene.

I come at this from a different perspective. While GS on the body does nothing for me, forced consumption as part of heavy degradation play can be very hot. When I say "forced" that usually involves heavy bondage and a very effective piss gag.....the kind where your only options are drink or drown . It's another way the Domme can display her complete control over the sub. From this perspective the nastier and stronger tasting the golden is the better. Bring on the coffee and asparagus! (and first pee of the morning )

OMG! I love it. What creativity. I wish I had thought of it.

I used to pee on my partners hair, face and down to his toes and then demand that he not shower and go on about his day. I called it wearing my perfume.

I’m having a Valentines Day session tomorrow, early AM with my Mistress. My guess (hope?) is that GS will occur. If so I’ll ask what she drank to hydrate and if I am allowed to discuss it publicly.

Thank you Cheyenne,

Over the years I have found that the most memorable sessions have been those where the Domme completely surprised me by taking a request and turning it into much more that I expected and in the process challenging me to expand my own limits. The GS moment i described was certainly one of those moments. I had experienced GS play before I requested it from this particular Domme and handled it pretty easily. While I didn't intend to be, I think she took that as a challenge and opportunity to take my GS experience to a much higher and demanding level. Which is exactly what she did !

Another example of her creativity......I would describe myself as an absolute NT whore and she knew that it was by far my most desired BDSM activity. Before and during every session with her I was constantly begging for more intense NT play. Can't explain it, but to me it is incredibly erotic and sexually stimulating. In our next session I was restrained to a bondage table and she was delivering from some serious NT that had put me in deep subspace, She blindfolded me and continued with the NT. I soon experienced a very different feeling in my nipples that took my breath away. She worked both nipples, one at a time. After a while, no idea how long, she took the blindfold off and I looked at down at my chest to see that she had pierced each nipple 4 times with needles. That picture in now burned into my memory and it was my first experience with play piercing.

Once again she had expanded my limits by putting a twist on an activity that I requested and greatly enjoyed.


Jack

Mistress-_Kylie,

I guess that is one way to solve the GS messy clean up problem, just don't clean up !!

God but I love the way you think!

Maybe you and Cheyenne should get the "band" together, come out of retirement and do a "Great Domme Reunion" tour ???


Jack

Not being a gs aficionado, I like the drink or drown scenario. It would be better if it was mild tasting urine but I would try what you describe in the right headspace.

Long story but no GS, nothing to report.

Dude, you can start another post with your session or put it in the review forum. It has been a while since I've had one. It would be nice to read about yours.

Yes, I see it as a way of the Domme demonstrating her control and my helplessness. That being completely under her control is where the turn on comes for me.