Interestingly enough, an African American dom on DominaMs.com said that she doesn't take offense and often engages in race play with her white subs. I'm long retired now still wrestle with my firm no policy on it. Was it selfish? I guess it doesn't matter because no one would want to session with a dom who is clearly uncomfortable with the core of the session. But, good for you and your light of heart, let's all have fun approach.