My fiance and I went about 5 years ago. It was a good time. The group we were with was predominantly swingers. But no one pushed anything. It was a fun excursion. The energy was upbeat. Even the staff was happy to be there and pampered us with enthusiasm. The food was good. The rooms were nice. It may vary from date to date, but we were able to go on planned excursions such zip lining and snorkeling. There was an up charge which we expected. I'd recommend this vaca as long as you aren't expecting a full on FemDom experience.