Last year for my fetish family's Friendsgiving, the host did the main course and everyone else brought sides. On the required list was a slave and a dog bowl. There was no explanation. This is how the winvitation went out. The slaves served our dinner. After dessert was served, the owners were asked to put their scraps in their slave's bowls and place them at their feet. The owners chatted casually as the slaves ate by our feet, being ignored. The host of the party put it off brilliantly. My subbie girl still can't stop talking about it. Next year, it is on me to host. That will be a hard act to follow.