There is nothing like leaving an open email requesting a session on your computer screen, only for your fiancee' to see it. I thought we were done after that. She moved out for a couple of week. She came home and we managed to work it out. She is my wife now. That was a hard lesson. Her mother still doesn't speak to me. It took her sister almost a year but things are fine with her now. I have a lot of guilt over what it has done to our family dynamics, especially on the holidays. Every day, I try to make it up to her. She is a wonderful woman.