I'm firmly in the yes camp on this one. It is an integral part of any session for me. I'd choose another Domme if it wasn't part of the session. I am a little surprised at the repeated references to "self" release. My experiences over the years in both the US, UK and Canada have overwhelmingly involved teasing/edging via application of something like a Hitachi Magic Wand, application of lube or use of some sort of a masturbation sleeve while restrained either lying down, secured in a bondage chair or in a sleep sack.
Is this really that uncommon in the US scene or if it just like the first rule of fight club?
