My fiance' thought so when she discovered that I had been doing sessions for years without her knowing. It was a mess and nearly cost me the love of my life. We ended up getting back together but it was a month of hell thinking she was gone for good. When she came to understand that there was no sex involved it made things better. It was the lies that bothered her more than anything. She allows me to have sessions when I travel for business. It is a don't ask, don't tell agreement.