Fun question, thanks for posting it.
I have done both, and while I have enjoyed both I do have a preference for a bit of conversation with a chance to settle myself and start slipping into subspace. In those few minutes I feel a sense of calm come over me as I feel all the stresses and pressures in my life just fade away. The only thing that exists for me in this moment is the Domme I am with. At that point, I am eager to just buckle up and let the Domme take me wherever and however She wants!
