I prefer for the session to begin as soon as I walk in. I like to write a long email explaining myself and my kink and trust the Domme to take it from there. I’m not sure but I feel years ago the Dommes were more willing to jump right in from the get go but in recent times it seems they like to start with a discussion of limits and go over any health issues because I guess I am old. Part of this may also be when I was younger I’d see a Domme much more frequently where they remembered me and knew me better but now if I session twice a year that’s a lot so even if I’ve seen the Domme before they want to go over things.
One of my most vivid session memories is seeing Goddess Severa for the first time. It was in a hotel when she was travelling. I’m sure I’d told her I’d like the session to begin as soon as I walked in. I was already nervous as always just getting to the location, parking and walking to the hotel. I got upstairs walked down the hallway and knocked on the door which opened partially and I entered without seeing her. Without warning she grabbed me by the throat with one hand and pinned me against the wall hard. I looked up and she was towering over me almost 7 feet tall in heels. That moment just sticks in my mind. Probably the most scared I’d ever been just the suddenness and violence of it.
