I get this. I tend to stay with Dommes I know and that they have a great presence on line. Website is very important and believe it or not Fetlife presence really helps. In the last 2 years I have tried 2 new dommes. I did my homework and thought pretty good about doing the session before hand and both were disappointing. It is so different than it was before and very hard to plan a session. I don't know if I will have a my kink feelings a week or two ahead.
