Cheyenne you certainly have a great perspective on this as both a Pro Domme and a wife. I could easily write 10 pages on this topic. Reading your post I will be honest and say it has entered my mind that after I die my wife could go through my phone and find things I don’t want her to find. I think to myself I should close stuff out and clear stuff periodically but I’m healthy and lazy and feel I’ve got time but obviously you never know.
I don’t know but I would guess most clients of pro Dommes and other swers are married. I’ve been kinky as far back as I remember. Telling my wife was never an option for me. I feel some guilt about all the sessions I’ve had but i compartmentalise well. These desires are almost as strong in me now as when I was younger. Sometimes I think I shouldn’t have gotten married but my wife and I have done well, raised some amazing kids so on the whole it’s been great so no regrets.
I do think it’s very hypocritical for any Pro Domme or swer look down on or judge married men unless they screen out married men which I doubt very few if any do.
