Thanks for the thoughtful response. I do believe it is a good idea not to leave anyway a spouse can find out in the event that something unexpected happens. The unanswered questions it could leave would be difficult on top of an already difficult time. I agree that it is hypocritical for someone to accept money from a married client and pass judgement. Most doms, don't. I have heard of a few, over the years, that won't see married man. But, that has been incredibly rare. My bottom line, is that as long as a man's first priority is his family, slipping away now and again for a session, is the best thing. It makes for a happier husband. And, obliviousness can be bliss.
