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I've heard people talk about having private sessions at strip clubs. Is this more for fun and sexy fetish or is there serious play going on there? I can't imagine they actually have serious dungeon gear in the VIP rooms.

My wife and I had our first strip club session when we were dating. We went in with low expectations and were happily surprised. Since then, we've had about a dozen more. Most of the time, we are happy with our experience. One that stands out was at a place in South Carolina when we were on vacation. The club, itself was upscale. The lady who we did a private with was a knock out. She had her own bag of toys. It was far from what you'd expect in an actual dungeon but more than what you'd expect in a strip club. She was a devil with bondage. She said her grandfather was a commercial fisherman and owned a large boat. She had excellent knot tying skills. It was my first experience with what she called predicament bondage. She tied my balls to hands as I was sitting in a chair. By the time she was done, I was fully restrained. If I struggled, the rope around by balls tightened. From there it was light punishment of my cock and a tease show. My wife loved it. They were both into it. I never expect a strip club session to replace a formal one with a professional. It is fun. There have been stand outs. Next time, I might take my own toy bag. If we pass through South Carolina again and the same lady is still working at the club, we'd go out of our way to see her. It is a nice prelude to an actual session or something fun to do in between.

I'm on the road or in the air for business a lot. Now and then, I hit a strip club. It easy for me because I am a foot and leg man. It is nice when the mood hits and timing isn't on my side.

When I was in college, I danced for a couple of years. Being athletic, I was very good with pole dancing. That lead to a lot of private requests. Now and then I got requests for fetishes. That is what lead to my interest in fetish and bdsm. I hope my customers would agree that they had as good of a femdom/fetish experience as they could expect in a strip club. Eventually, I put my own bag of gear together. I had a lot of returns. I put together a floor routine that I did in dominatrix gear. That went over well. That was an enjoyable time of my life. From what I hear it was easier and more lucrative than working at a dungeon house as a newbie.

Mistress Cheyenne, I never heard of the phenomenon and as you and maybe a few others know around here, I've been around the block a few times. After reading a few of the responses I was reminded of a story from around 2002 or 2003. That's when I began to enter the female bodybuilder/wrestler scene for domination with my "you Amazon Queen, me submissive Tarzan" role play. That's how I met Bunny Glamazon around that time, a 6 ft. 3 in. big "country girl" who was / is a featured stripper who also does videos and was on the live session circuit. She's 6 ft. 3 in. (without heels), listed at 220 lbs. (all well distributed), a busty, leggy blonde Amazon. She was appearing at a strip club back then, Flash Dancers in Manhattan when it was still open, a unique way to meet a dominatrix. She danced, I tipped her, had a lap dance and asked about her wb270.com listing for an appointment, and she said to email her. I did.

The next day or two I was at her hotel door and she opens it. I'm 6 ft. 1 in. and (then) around 225 or so lbs. She greets me with a smile and a big hug, and for one of the few times in my life I felt short and intimidated immediately. With her sweet southern drawl she took me into the bedroom of her suite and said, "Get comfortable, I'll be back." Her mobile phone rang immediately and she said, "Yes... yes... everything's fine." If I remember correctly it was a relative or a friend, "Who's never been in New York City," who was traveling with her and was checking in to see if I was legit. Okay, I get ready and she comes back into the room with some kind of leopard bikini. Gorgeous. All legs and breasts. Bunny is not a bodybuilder, but naturally strong. She had me in scissor holds, pinned me to the floor, to the wall, etc. and cooing in that damned charming southern accent, "Now little Tarzan isn't gonna give me trouble, are you?" It was seductive and threatening, all at the same time. At the end I freshened up and she wanted to talk, and we mentioned the scene at that time and that she wanted to do a book or video about her experiences. Never did meet her again. Wonderful woman and great experience.

Funny you should mention Flash Dancers. Around 2000 I got seriously involved with one of their dancers. It lasted about 2 years. Had nothing to do with Femdom though.

I'm with you on this one. I've enjoyed strip clubs. It is very different than the Femdom I seek out.