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I'm curious as to how often your mind turns to kink in everyday life? What everyday items or situations makes your mind go there?

It happens to me all the time. There is the classic Home Depot stuff (rope, chains, padlocks) but lots of other things too. I saw a high security locking steel storage unit there that measured about 2 feet deep by 4 feet wide by 5 high. My first thought was about leaving out the shelves being locked in that unable to stand erect or lay down. Then I thought about how easy it would be to install some eyebolts on the inside for restraint attachment points. A posture collar padlocked to one high up would leave you awkwardly crouching unable to sit down either.

Walking though a auto parts store and seeing a selection of antennas my first thought is always "Wow, I bet they would hurt!" grin (same for those acrylic rods for turning louvered window shades)

Browsing the arthritis cream aisle at a drugstore and checking out the capsaicin extra strength rub.


Obviously shoe stores with stiletto heeled pumps or boots in the window do it for me....and for me, with my kink for suffering heat play, any time seeing heavy Arctic parkas, Northface down suits or winterweight down sleeping bags etc. Obviously, given my name, the fur department at an upscale department store or a furrier display window also used to do it for me but sadly they are becoming less common even in Canada.

A recent thread on outdoor play in another forum got me thinking about cutting the lawn on a really hot day. Now while cutting the lawn I'll daydream about being dressed in multiple layers of wool, fleece and down from head to toe as if it was --40, my hands cuffed to the lawn mower's push bar and wearing a remote electroshock device on my balls. Mistress lounging in the shade with the remote and a cool drink, encouraging me to pick up the pace...... eek

Good topic. I can't go into a hardware store without getting a secret smile on my face. It is a bdsm haven for making bondage equipment. I was building a bondage chair for a Domme a few years ago. Checking out at Home Depot, the cashier was trying not to laugh. It was so obvious.

Great post. For me, I see it all too often. Bengay, clothes pins, hardware aisles, shoe departments and even in certain attire. In the Barbie movie, of all things, I was laughing out loud when Ken took over Barbie's fur coat. ClubDom's production manager and I are very close friends. It is hilarious when we are out together. We see it in too many things. The doctor sent my mother home with a ten's unit some years back. I had almost forgotten there was a medicinal use for them.

For me it is women's shoe departments - backless, open toed high heels, in animal print, red or clear. (Drool...) And several years ago, a day or two before a session I passed a local pet store and they had dog chains on sale. The thought crossed my mind of what my Mistress would do to me if I bought a large steel dog collar for me to wear in session. Now, whenever we session, she immediately puts it on me and controls me with it. Every items become complex pleasures...

Beautiful, confident women take my mind there. The setting and attire doesn't matter. It is the way she handles herself that is ooo la la.

Saw an ad recently for a joke shop that sold itching powder. My mind immediately turned to being zipped into a leather bondage bag that had the lining liberally dusted with that.

It is funny with me because it is in reverse. When the mood strikes out of the blue, everything reminds me of kink.