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Just curious... How do y'all feel about butt stuff?

I always considered things like being forced by a Domme to wear an uncomfortable butt plug, or being pegged by a Domme as just fun.

Someone told me the other day that guts into butt stuff 'are gay'.

Thoughts?

I've done uncomfortable butt plugs but only for strap on training. Maybe I'm being selfish here but, my goal is to please Goddess but also be pleasured myself. Pegging does that for me, especially when She is really getting into it. I'm happy to suffer when doing manual labor for her. In fact, mowing Her lawn on the hottest day of the year only to follow it up with detailing Her car, is a big turn on.

A couple of things. I have done plenty of chores for my longtime Mistress - driving her on errands, moving her belongings into her storage room and her home, etc. It gives me more time with my Mistress and she appreciates what I do.

About "butt stuff," I'm sure I've told the story I had a couple of lousy experiences when I first got into the scene as a college kid. Not my thing. However my Mistress loves aggressively dry humping me since I first met her, however based on my current flexibility, age, no way I can take her strap on. Yet she began to have me worship her strap on orally. I hardly gag anymore and she's aggressive. Is that "gay"? I don't know & I don't care, I began doing it because I'm in such sub space I want to please my Mistress, and it now turns me on tremendously. If we are truly submissive you have to at least try something that you might be comfortable with because your Mistress loves it. Same thing happened with me and GS... but that's for another thread.

I lean toward 4 hour session with a blend of heavy or corporal and rest in heavy bondage. Now and then a Mistress with throw in uncomfortable butt plug play. I like that for a time, especially when combined with electricity, such as an eros tek, Honestly, erotic pegging doesn't do much for me. I get eroticism from my wife. I see Dommes for the emotional release that comes from intense play.

Butt play is gay? It sounds like something an insecure man who has long fantasized about it would say.

Absolutely!