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...or do you just like to play one on tv?

I'd estimate that 20% of my clients were and the other 80% just liked to play that way. Most of my clients were men who had a lot of responsibility throughout their day, mostly in their careers, and needed a release for that. The 20% were truly submissive but only to the right woman.

How is it for you?

I think I'd fall in the 80%.

I prefer at least the illusion of being "forced" into submission.....ie bondage to render me helpless and immediate discipline for failure to obey any instructions.

Being ordered to lick the soles of her boots isn't a turn on.....knowing if I refused I'll be punished with increasing intensity until I did is.

FWIW When I was in a longterm relationship that included BDSM the D/s aspect was strictly restricted to playtimes and time "in session" .