Domspeak Forums Discussions Lobby Preferred Ways to Masturbate

This is probably TMI but, whenever I am in bed with flu like systems, I find myself masturbating all day. It isn't a conscience decision, I just naturally do it. I never gave it much thought until my girlfriend started teasing me about it. It is probably because my body wants to feel better and a continual release of endorphins is comforting. Most women are multi orgasmic so they can do this. I was thinking too bad men can't do this. But, what they can do is edge, which is masturbating but, stopping just short of completion and then starting back again.

As, I was stuck in bed with a fever for two days, my mind was going everywhere with this. Methods, toys, the good old fashion way, a quickie or all day....The possibilities are endless. Wyou like an audience, assistance or privacy? What are your favorite way to masturbate?

I can understand that - in bed, sick & under the covers trying to keep warm - and daydreaming. Doing it yourself in the middle of the workday, sick, for me it would be thinking of dirty things with my Mistress she would never, ever do. Then cleaning up, napping, waking up aroused and doing it all again. I've been there.

Favorites in the past few years involve my Mistress. After entertaining and worshipping Mistress, especially after she pleasures herself, I usually stand up with just a dog chain around my neck while Mistress talks dirty, flaunts herself, I do the deed. Then there is my Mistress' favorite, which means it is mine too. She orders me to put pee pads on the floor, orders me to masturbate, as I get close to cumming she strips off whatever she has on, squats and showers my groin and chest as I cum. The first time we did it that way I felt euphoric, emotional, and completely owned & connected to Her. She laughs and says she loves the expression on my face when that happens.

(Just writing this I need to take a cold, conventional shower immediately. LOL!)

My ultimate favorite is face up, restrained to a bondage bed with a butt plug inserted and a sound in my urethra. Both they are grounded to the eros tek box. Mistress very gradually turns up the intensity of the box until I am almost there. Then, with a soft, very light touch of her hand, it is over and it is other worldly. With respect to the Dommes, I don't want to make this sound like a hand job. It is just a barely there light brush. Heaven on earth.

My tendency is to start watching FemDom videos a couple of hours before my wife gets home from work. I don't quite edge. I just stroke as necessary. When my wife gets home, I meet her at the door with a glass of wine and tell her that dinner is prepped. I massage her shoulders and then start kissing her neck. Then, I drag her to the bedroom. I guess that makes masturbation a form of foreplay for me.

What a fun topic! My preference is interaction with my fiance or topping at a play party. When I'm lost in dom head space, I orgasm without even touching myself. When those options aren't available and the mood strikes, I get creative. Water masturbation is my favorite. Laying under fast running water in the jacuzzi does it for me. I take a beverage, do the mood lighting. It is like a one person party. My fiance has come home early a couple of times to find me. He finds it amusing. But, I'm happy when he does walk in on me. I pull him in the tub with me.

Yeah... Edging... Getting wrapped up in erotica or some kind of fantasy for a few hours and then getting close to climax and then backing off. That's how I seem to masturbate.

As I have written before, like most men, I am typically not multi-orgasmic. One orgasm and the that's it, turn off the shit, time for bed. Sorry, it has to be a brain chemistry thing.

The fantasy? Often Femdom, although some other things creep in there once in a while. There is a lot of power exchange - having the chastity cage unlocked, being given permission to touch and play. Am I supervised? Sure. Is it done Ina way to be humiliating or degrading? Sure. Is there a threat that permission will be revoked before I spurt? And that I'll just be locked back up for another month or two or six without orgasm? Absolutely.

Your sense of unbridled fun is inspiring. I love it. I'm not even into gs and find the scene you described super hot.

That sounds like one hell of a session. I can see why it would be an unworldly experience. Speaking of eros teks, it is a shame they went out of business. I'm glad I still have my good old sparky box. They are a hot toy now at play parties. Someone also asks if I want to sell mine.

Too funny! Do you think she knows what you are up to?

Talk about the one and done, although I am a ride or die all night type of girl, I can empathize. My first strap on experience with a chick was back in college. It was sensational. I loved it, expect that that more she orgasmed, the more she wanted to do it again. I doing all of the work as a top. After a solid 90 minutes I was worn out. My quads were aching and my energy spent. All I wanted was to order a pizza and watch football.

That's totally hot.

And, I like it when women use a strap on and later say "that was a lot of work". Heh. Really? A half hour of full power thrusting was a lot of work? Huh. Like running a marathon...