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How many here have had interaction with more than one Domme at once? I've been involved in multi dom videos and off camera play. Most often, it worked great because we were all on the same vibe with each other. There have been a few times where the vibe wasn't mutual and it was awkward. The video came out good but behind the scenes I had to struggle to engage the lady I was shooting with. The connection between the tops in the experience is as important as the connection with the slave. IMHO.

I've experienced the same thing over the years. I loved domming and filming with ladies I had a strong connection with. That goes for whether I was in front of the camera or the one running it and directing. You and I had a great chemistry in filming for ClubDom where we could just say it all by just exchanging looks or nods. 90% of my experience with multiple doms has been great. One that I still feel bad about like I just didn't give the client the experience he was paying for was with the now retired Mistress Brianna of DC. She and I got along very well personally. Great lady. But, we hadn't worked together enough to develop an in session vibe between us. Another time I was working with a dom and one of her friends at her space. A client I had played with quite a bit came in and I felt they were pushing him too far. He signed up for. There was only so much I could do. But, it took everything in my being not to stop the session. I made a point to meet up with him shortly afterwards. He was okay and could tell I was highly uncomfortable with the session, which he appreciated. It was all good but, I became a lot more careful sessioning in a space where I didn't have ultimate control of the activity.

But, over all, multi dom has been very positive. If you ever want to return to filming, we could do a cat woman type attire where you don't have to show your face. Just keep it in mind in case the mood strikes. ;-)

Uh la la! Multi Domme sessions are a giant slice of heaven. The more the merrier! When I was single, the Domme I was seeing was young, hot and had a lot of friends. I took her and her friends on vacations in those years. The friends would swap out at times. But, they were always hot and fun. It was mainly foot and personal servitude. The skill level didn't matter. I loved those days. They were gracious enough to go just for the vacation. Amex points and a horny recently divorced man are quite a combination.

I've had "multi-dom" sessions, three being as a "practice sub" for a "Mistress-in-training." The first three were with my first Mistress, the late and legendary Belle de Jour from Manhattan. My first time as a "practice sub" was my SECOND session. After that first session with Belle as a 20 year old college kid, I was so turned on, but had no cash immediately, I'd call up a couple of times a week just to hear her voice. After three or four of such calls she barked at me on the phone, "GET HERE AT 4 TOMORROW AFTERNOON! I'M TRAINING A NEW MISTRESS!" Turned on, but intimidated since I barely had money for one tribute ($35 for 45 minutes in 1973!) I gulped and whispered, "I can't afford the two tributes." Belle barked again, "JUST GET HERE AT 4 PM AND HAVE MY TRIBUTE!" I got there, went to the playroom, and Belle would politely tell me how to stand, bend over, etc. but was pretty direct with the Mistress-in-training. Halfway through the session, Belle said, "That's it for today," to the trainee and she went one-on-one with me, firmly in control but both seductive and warm with me. It was a unique experience, just like Belle herself.

A decade later I got back into the scene, became a regular of her niece, Gloria, who Belle introduced me to at her dungeon. After one session Belle said, "My friend wants to become a Mistress and I'm training her. Can you come to my apartment?" I said sure, her place was a couple of blocks away from the dungeon. I seriously don't remember if a tribute was involved. If so it was minimal. We played in Belle's living room and bedroom and she demonstrated different aspects of dominance that I was comfortable with, then the trainee would repeat it. I remember her friend being excited and turned on, with more vanilla reactions than a real dominatrix. A second lesson a few weeks later took place, this time Belle was there only in the beginning and another Mistress did the instruction. Ironically she was a dancer I met at my friend's bachelor party a couple of years earlier. At one point the Mistress tied me to a wooden chair with the trainee, then telling her how horny I got at the bachelor party and I got groped by both of them. Yes, another unique session and a lot of fun.

The final time as a "practice sub" was a bit strange. It was a few years after Belle. It was a Mistress Tyra, who was in Manhattan a bit during the '90s. We did the "Amazon Queen / captured Tarzan" role play and asked if a trainee could sit in and watch. The key piece of equipment was bondage bench with a cage on the bottom. Tyra put a collar and leach on me, something she never did before, and whipped me into the cage. I was ordered to growl like an animal, tried to grope Tyra's legs, she whipped my hands and I acted like I could "bend" the bars and escape. I was removed from the cage, leaned me over the table and Tyra showed how to hand spank and ass whip a sub. The trainee had the look of shock and surprise. She said little. Halfway into the scene Tyra dismissed the trainee. The door closed and she laughed, "I don't think I'll see her again." I was rewarded with foot and leg worship for the punishment I endured.

One other two-on-one session was one an escort/dominatrix arranged with another pro who heard about my roleplay. I went to the pro's apartment, they had a large plush tiger for "Tarzan" to wrestle. They had on leopard or tiger two piece outfits, I had on a homemade leopard thong, and there was a lot of spanking and growling after the tiger was subdued. While the ladies were gorgeous, my memory of the session was that my attention (lust) was split between the both of them and I didn't know who to give attention to first. It was like having too much ice cream!

I love group play when it is right. Class room and domestic role play are my favorite. I'm getting that itch. It has been months. I might have to make a trip to Chi town for one my favorite annual Christmas parties.

I'm in the minority on this one. A one on one session is best for me. I like the intensity of power exchange with my Mistress with no distractions for either one of us.

I agree with you. I guess my exuberance in describing my experiences I didn't emphasize that in the case of the escort/domina two-some or the training sessions I had, the most fun was when I went one-on-one after the trainees were dismissed. With the two escort/dominas, in that session there were distractions, my attention was split. In the other sessions, especially with Belle de Jour, looking back on them she was dominating me and the trainee. I got turned on by being valued by her to train someone and being an exhibitionist for the first time.

Mistress Kylie, Thanks for posting an interesting topic!

While the vast majority of my sessions have been 1 on 1, I have had duo Domme sessions on several occasions. Each time it was with 2 Dommes that I had sessioned with individually before attempting to have the two Domme session. The Dommes knew one another very well, appeared to be friends and had played in many duo Domme sessions so I was confident that they would have pretty good chemistry with each other just as I felt I had pretty good chemistry with each of them individually.

With only one exception, the two Dommes sessions have been fantastic. I could tell that the Ladies had given the session some serous though beforehand as they moved seamlessly from one preplanned activity to the next. While they worked well together, each was also unique in their own style that seemed to compliment the other. For example, one was much more vocal in a session than the other while the less vocal Domme was very much a bondage bad ass. So while one Domme was immobilizing me with an extremely heavy bondage rigging, the vocal Domme was taking great delight in telling me what was going to happen next and how difficult it was going to be for me. She also was "hands on", squeezing, pinching, tugging and smacking my most tender parts while the other Domme did all the rigging. There was no opportunity for me to calm down and prepare for the bondage, it all just was too intense and too fast. I love it! At one point they were each torturing a nipple (self described nipple torture slut that I am) but the pain came so fast and was so continuous that I was soon begging, just repeating the word "please, please, please" over and over. The Dommes stopped for a moment, and one of the said "please what, jack?" and the only thing I could think of to say was "please more"! Of course the Dommes promptly and thoroughly granted my request.

A few final thoughts on two (or more) Domme sessions:


The session will likely be high energy and move along quickly. If it is financially possible, schedule a session that is at least 2 hours long. Time flies when you are having fun, and you are hopefully creating an experience that will be a great memory for a long time.

Come into the session with an open mind and a willing heart. If you are playing with 2 experienced and skilled Dommes who have great energy together then you can truly let yourself go. Just buckle up and enjoy the great ride. Your 2 Domme session will likely be very different from your usual 1 on 1 session and go in directions that surprise and delight you. Just lay back and let the Ladies do their thing.


Be aware ahead of the session that while you may not be doing much talking, the Dommes will be frequently chatting back and forth about you, and that may include some humiliating comments. I am not into humiliation in a big way, so in my case, it was more with a sense of humor and erotic teasing. However if humiliation is your thing, this is a great opportunity for you to experience it in heavy doses.


Enjoy!

I love both. One on one time with my Goddess is precious. There is an intimacy when it is just us, whether we are out for coffee or it's play time. When she has me serve a gathering of her friends, it brings out the attention whore in me. I love to make dinner for them and serve it in my maids uniform. Some times, the relax with coffee or wine after dinner and I am allowed to lay beneath there feet and worship them. I guess that makes me an all purpose sissy slut.

Thanks, everyone for your posts and thoughts on the subject. I agree with the census here. It does agree on who, what and chemistry.