Domspeak Forums Discussions Lobby Angry, Aggressive and Politically Incorrect

These are the three main ingredients to making a perfect Domme. It's just a shame that most Dommes don't fit these criteria. A lot of Dommes refuse to do raceplay, but will call their sub "faggot." It's so hypocritical. BDSM should never be politically correct. And don't get me started on these "Dommes" who giggle throughout the entire session. TAKE WHAT YOU'RE DOING SERIOUSLY!!! I swear, I'm close to just biting the bullet and producing my own femdom porn. All we have nowadays is POV. Yeah, I like POV, but it's ALL we're getting. The hottest content is always real people in a room together. I have the vision to make a site as great as Cruella or Club Dom, it's just that it's so expensive. This must be why everyone who makes porn is in the mafia.

Dude, everything about BDSM is politically incorrect.

Do I need to call your mother and tell her about this?

I can empathize with your annoyance of doms who giggle through scenes. It is something you won't see on my websites. But, some people may like that so, who are we to judge?

As far as POVs becoming increasingly common, consider the drastic reduction in production budget. This is due to piracy, the ease of filming making it easy for everyone with an iphone to start a C4 store, therefore increasing competition and lessening the talent pool interested in filming. Visa merchants have not been kind to femdom films either. They have become increasingly strict on what they will allow in regard to marks, bondage and predicaments. The same scenes in series like American Horror Stories would get pulled from their website and C4 store and maybe even land them legal trouble.

Expensive to start? Oh yes. With all the restrictions you may not even see a return on filming, especially if you are starting out with no equipment or set location to film. But, if you are serious about making your own femdom videos, I'd be happy to offer my advise and even write scripts for you. I'm in semi retirement now. Instead of filming twice every week, it has turned into two or three times a year. I have so many awesome script ideas that never made it to film. Anyone who is serious about making videos, I'd love to help. The only thing I'd want in return is the satisfaction of seeing my great kink ideas in use...and...no giggling! ;-)

Wow. Thanks Lady Cheyenne. You were definitely one of the greats of all time and I'd love to get you out of retirement! Maybe you could shoot me a DM?

Oh shit. I JUST saw my typo. Meant to say BDSM should never be politically correct. My bad.

I am not coming out of retirement but, thanks for the kind words. My grandchildren, spreading my time between three homes and my youngest daughter, who will be a freshman in college next year, keep me overly busy. But, I'd love to script and, remotely, assist anyone shooting femdom videos. There is too much fun there not be had. I just don't know how lucrative it would be these days for someone starting out. It would have to be a labor of love. For any of it, I'm all in.

Funny, these days, pushing sixty, my neighbors, in any one of my homes, think of me as a grandmotherly figure who goes over the top decorating for the holidays and putting out beautiful flowers in the warm months. No one would guess that I'm a retired dominatrix. People see the way I live and ask about how I made my money time sometimes. I just say that I'm retired from IT. That is actually true...just a little bit of omission involved.

Yet, I am sure you excel at Halloween!

You totally should start your own BDSM content creation enterprise. It's the only way it will be done right.

Doh! Sounds like that might get him a good spanking.