Domspeak Forums Discussions Lobby What is the Proper Way to Deal with Sissies?

I think Mistresses should deal with sissies like they're subhuman filth with no human rights whatsoever. Sissies also should be occupied with Mistress' chores around the house, such as scrubbing Mistress' toilet clean and serving Mistress and Her friends tea and wine, all while feminized of course. I think the best way to call a sissy over to serve tea is attach a dog's shock collar around his worthless sissy balls. I also think a sissy's worthless cock should be locked up at all times while the key on a necklace sits in-between Mistress' huge cleavage. Preferably, he'll never get to cum again in his worthless sissy life. And the best part is if the sissy does bad at his job, he gets his ass caned mercilessly, and if he does a good job, he also gets his ass caned mercilessly, so he can't really win either way. Any other thoughts?

I don't get into sissy play. However, I do enjoy them at parties when they are dressed to the nines and serving glasses of wine or helping their owner host a party. I have never thought about a different side to it. Your description puts an interesting spin on it.

Do you need to assume the identity of a woman to be dehumanized?

That would be fun for a couple of hours. But, if you are talking about a personal slave situation, I wouldn't want that in my life 24/7. I had a personal slave for about 5 years. Our lives took us in different directions but we've stayed in touch. There were times when he was certainly a second class citizen in my life. The morning of my wedding, he was required to paint my toe nails and have my honeymoon suite prepared, right done to chocolate covered strawberries. He was also a welcome member of mine and my husband's household. We kept it completely vanilla around our family and friends. He respected that. In fact, he probably wouldn't have accepted it any other way. It was fun to reduce him to a complete servant but also dress him up and make him feel special as he strutted his around the studio.

To each their own, but I find a balance in everything is good. Full on derogation was fun for me in short spans. I couldn't have had someone I didn't care about in my full time life. And I couldn't treat anyone like that 24/7 and remain who I am as a person.

It would make a great video or extended session though. Just my thoughts anyway.

Oh in REAL life? In real life you have to come out of subspace in order to be healthy. And yes, there has to be mutual love and respect between the Domme and Her sub. I've never been a 24/7 sub constantly, but I don't think I could do it. I would have to be vanilla a lot of the time. So we're in agreement about that.

No, but for me it's like "a slave's uniform" if that makes sense. The Domme's uniform is skintight skimpy latex and the sub's uniform is to be sissified. I don't think that I truly am a woman on the inside, it's actually quite the opposite. It's the idea that I'm being forced to dress that way solely as a form of humiliation because I failed at being a real man. Hopefully that makes sense. And like I was saying before to Lady Cheyenne, when I'm not horny I have to go back to normal mode. I have no desire to crossdress in public or present that as my identity, like a certain group of crazy people that's in the news a lot.

I think it's important that sissies have their pp locked up. Real men should swing free, sissies need to be in chastity under lock and key, with Domme/Dom keyholder.

Sissies should pee sitting down, and should be punished if they try to pee standing up like a man.

If the Domme / Dom gifts a sissy with permission to masturbate, the sissy shoud remained locked and ONLY be allowed to masturbate like a girl - either using two fingers to rub her clit, 9r if she us being rewarded, allowed to use a vibrator.

But really, a sissy's locked clit should mostly be ignored. A sissy should learn to use her mouth and boi pussy as her main sex organs.

Good topic! When I am a sissy, I like to be of service in brushing Goddess's hair, helping her get dressed, making lunch or whatever She may want at the time. I enjoy being treated as a servant, such as not sitting at the table or allowed on the furniture. I like it when She has me in chastity and wears the key as a silent trophy. This can be in the form of a necklace, earring or ankle bracelet. When out in public, some people may notice. That is a turn on for me too.

I was never a sissy but my third session was close when I was a 20 yr old college kid with little cash and my first Mistress, a true 48 or 50 year old MILF, took pity on me. So the third time I saw her I was a house slave. Well, a "Roman bath slave." The Mistress suggested I go to her apartment and wear the loin cloth made of rags I had for my first two sessions. I got there 7:30 am or so, showed me where the bathroom was. I was told to put on my loin cloth, run a bubble bath and wait their for her to return. I did as told and she returned in a white robe, slipped it off and she was nude. I helped her into the tub, took my time bathing her, and dryed her off. It was glorious and my arousal was evident. She told me to clean up the tub, dry off and get to her bedroom to help dress her.

What I found out was that dressing a Mistress is as big a turn on as watching a Mistress undress. When I completed my task, and seeing my situation, I was ordered to pleasure myself with her foot nearby for me to worship. Then there was a quick, "CLEAN UP, GET DRESSED AND MEET ME INSIDE." I did, she showed me to the kitchen to make her coffee and and serve muffin or something. When I was serving her coffee - she never asked me to have any - she said, "When do you have to go to class?" She grinned and added, "I want you to meet my maid." I had a job interview before class, I said I had to leave soon. Disappointed, but understanding, she wished me luck and I left. As I walked to down the hall and saw someone got off the elevator from a distance. Looked like a tall thin middle-aged woman. As the person got closer and closer it was evident the person was a guy dressed, in a sophisticated manner, in drag. I did a double take, we passed each other and I got to the elevator and took a look back. The lady must've been the Mistress' maid because she knocked on her door.

Relatively innocent about BDSM at that point, crossdressing for sure, I was completely spooked, thinking if the Mistress had something in mind for me to do when the maid arrived. Immediate fear gripped me. I dropped out of the scene for several years after that, my precious 20 year old male ego couldn't process what I was thinking what might have happened if I had stayed. LOL!

It's important to approach topics like this with respect and a focus on consent. Everyone has different dynamics in their relationships, but mutual agreement and boundaries should always come first. Open communication and understanding are key to any arrangement being safe and enjoyable for everyone involved.