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Have you ever woke up and wondered what in the hell happened? I did a bi scene for my Goddess. I'm not about men at all. It was spontaneous. I SO wanted to please Her. I'm still not sure how to feel about it.

I The distinction between Hard :Limits and Soft Limits ia very important to me. A Domme I have grown to trust who wants to push limits can carefully push my Soft Limits but not my Hard Limits.

I've moved through comfort zones with my girlfriend, now wife. But, my hard limits are not up for grabs. Luckily, it stills leaves us with a lot of room for exploration.

Hard limits are critical for me. I session for 2 to 4 hours at a time. Once in deep subspace, I can't speak for myself. I need to know that I am with a Mistress who will respect the limits we've discussed. I've been fortunate to have mostly wonderful experiences. There was a Mistress who wanted to do strap on, which was a limit for me. She talked to me about it before and after session a few times. I respected that she didn't introduce this in the middle of a session where she could have asked to cut off my toes and I would have nodded yes. Eventually, I did agree. It was okay but not something I'd do again.