Domspeak Forums Discussions Lobby Local Sessions vs Traveling for One

In my active years, I commonly had clients who traveled in from a few states away. People with a 3 to 6 hour drive or quick 600 mile flight accounted for about half of my business. When it came to weekend retreats, it was the same and a few from even further away.

These days, my younger friends have devoted clients from other countries who either fly into see them or put them on first class flights to go to them.

Much is convenience a factor in who you choose to see? Is traveling to see a specific dom worth it to you?

Hi Stranger! Thanks for setting up this forum. I travel every week for work, much of it driving. I love the traveling sessions. It gives me an opportunity to see a variety of Goddesses. When I cover a colleague's territory, the first thing I do is see who is there. There is a thrill of planning and playing through the possible scenarios as I'm on the road. There is a excellent Goddess in my area. We have a great rapport. Local has value too. I'm blessed to have both.

I'm limited to Domme's close by or traveling through. There are generous options where I live so it works. On the rare occasion I am out of town on my own, there is additional spice. Some of that is seeing someone new but prepping a month or two out works my head into self foreplay. If I were able to travel specifically for a session, I'd do that once a year. The draw back would be that expectations can be heightened and a disappointment would be harder to take than locally.

I'll speak about this in reference to traditional Mistresses and also, dominant bodybuilder/fitness ladies. For me it was never a matter of one versus the other, it was a matter of opportunity, and I had my fair share. I mentioned I started out a bit in college, and then a decade later, and it was all local where I built up a loyalty / camaraderie with certain traditional Mistresses over the years and became a regular, especially in the late '80s into the '90s.

In the dominant bodybuilder/fitness category, from the early '00s until the late teens when I was active, there were few local women who were really dominant. The city was, maybe still is, a major drawing card for touring Amazons and I became a regular with a handful. I've seen them when they have come here, and when I was on business, when I was in their cities. In my case, after a couple of sessions with a few traveling female bodybuilders, I was able to build up a chemistry and it is like being a regular with a local Mistress. The anticipation of having a business trip to a place where you know one of these Goddesses, or they are on a tour going to your town is tremendous. (The set up emails, a call or two about logistics, her hotel/home or my hotel, possible activities... very hot.) I had that with two Dominatrix / bodybuilders, each for a half dozen years or so. With one in the U.S. we wound up seeing each other twice, maybe three times a year. The other, from overseas, it was once a year. But all the sessions were memorable... as if I was a local regular with them.

Great question! And yes, I know I've been lucky.

I contrived several “work trips” that were 3 hours away to visit dommes in Philly and New York. And I always tried to combine real work trips with sessions. It’s a little harder now to do, but I’d live to get to Atlanta to see Julia Steele again!

There aren't many local options where I live. So, my wife and I travel for one, making a vacation out of it. It opens up the options on who we can see and gives a great start to the vacation. We both spend the next couple of days feeling high from it.