Domspeak Forums Thread Like Summary - Dommes Who Come Out of Retirement

I love women. There is an eternal soft place in my heart for every special relationship I've had. When a Domme that I have seen many times over the years came out of retirement, I worked it into the travel schedule. She was older, which was to be expected but a lot heavier. There was no relaxing play area. It was an every day living room. Even that I could have gotten around but she did not want to be there anymore than I did. If she had just contacted me and asked for money, I probably would have helped her. This was pathetic for both of us. What do you when you know it is going to go bad? When it is someone you care about, walking out isn't an option. I am very hesitant to see anyone after it has been a long time after this. I've seen older Dommes before that were enthused and happy to see me. This was not the case. Suffering through a session in this kind of way is not what I envisioned.

I'm in my 30's and think about coming out of retirement. It is unrealistic because of my new family and vanilla career path. It doesn't mean that I don't miss domming. Although what you experienced was unfair to you and understandably disappointing, there are those of us who love the femdom life.

Mine was like the Jacqueline Park moment you describe. It is hit hard because she is someone I cared about. If she had asked I would have helped her and we could have had a nice lunch together, reminiscing about the good times we shared.

It was that she scammed me that hurt. I didn't care about the money. It was that she didn't have more respect for me and what I believed to be a true friendship. I still wish her the best.

For me, it isn't about age. One of the ladies I frequented worked into her mid sixties. She kept herself in pristine condition. She took on age and made it her own. She must have been well into her 60's when I last saw her. We went to the beach. Her body and the way she carried herself was more appealing than any younger woman there. If someone wants to let themselves go or is ill and can't help their decline, that is their business. I've got a host of imperfections myself. Hustling people who care about me isn't one of them. I do agree that a mature Domme brings a set of skills and class that usually only comes with experience.