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#1323 07/15/2024 9:10 PM
by TedBCruisen
TedBCruisen
Has anyone had an issue with this? I'm trying to see a new Domme next month. It has gotten a little off putting. Maybe she had a bad experience but she seems paranoid. I come with good references and a personal phone number. Assuming she has security cameras she could even get my plate number.
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#1331 Jul 16th a 10:54 AM
by Cheyenne
Cheyenne
Everyone should conduct business in a way that they are comfortable. That goes for prodoms and clients. She may have had a bad experience. It is difficult to tell. My experience as a very busy prodom is that most clients are very good people. My screening consisted of brief interviews and instinct. Treating a client like a potential criminal would have felt like throwing a wet blanket on a good time. There were two brushes, one of which was only on line, but nothing of any magnitude. But, I can understand if a dom has a single bad experience that she would be very cautious. My advise is that if you really want to see her, talk to her about it. If it doesn't work out, put it behind you. It sounds as if you have a lot of opportunity. Good luck with however you decide to proceed.
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#1330 Jul 16th a 09:01 AM
by whippingboy
whippingboy
I haven't noticed much of a difference. It is rare that I'm asked for references. I'm 90 minutes out of NYC. Maybe location is a factor.
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#1326 Jul 16th a 01:32 AM
by TedBCruisen
TedBCruisen
I don't complain about prices or security measures. If they don't work out, I pass. In this case, I started to question her mental wellness. (Not to her, of course.) It left me wondering if stalking or harassing has become common place. I'm passing on this one and wish her the best.
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#1336 Jul 16th a 03:34 PM
by TedBCruisen
TedBCruisen
Thank you, Mistress. I'm feeling like taking a pass. I don't think any less of her. But, it isn't a good fit.
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