Looking at this from reverse, I was never put in a situation where age difference bothered me. When I was in my early 40's, a young man fresh out of college booked a session with about every couple of months. He like role play in which he was seduced and then punished by his friend's mother. Our sessions were someone light hearted. I put him in a hanging suspension cage on one of these sessions. He started, playfully, singing "Here's to you, Mrs. Robinson." It was hilarious."
When it came to being too old, the only concern I had was their safety and being certain I had full disclosure of their health. A few of the men in their late 60's- mid 70's, were in better physical shape than some of the much younger clients. But, a few were not and their not having a heart attack or falling was of concern. There were only a handful of men in that category over the years of sessioning. It was rare, thankfully. I never had the heart to turn someone away in that situation.
When it came to my days of a video producer, especially with Subby Hubby, which is a more sexually explicit website, I began by privately interviewing any lady under the age of twenty five. I wanted to know they had no second thoughts about filming and were comfortable with the script. That didn't last very long. I was getting the same answer of, "Heck yeah! I'd be having sex with hot men anyway. Why not get paid for it?" The last interview I did was with Riley Reed. We were one of her first shoots, before she shot to porn stardom and millionaire status. She was an absolute doll of a young lady, cheerful and nice to everyone. When I asked her if she was comfortable with the explicit things we'd be shooting, she started laughing. She thought it was the most absurd questions she'd be asked on somone's set. After that, I stopped interviewing. I did, however, leave the set in the hands of my production manager. I was really uncomfortable with the filming of sex. Which is funny, because filming a man being brutally caned and pegged by multiple women was something I was not only comfortable with but enjoyed.
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