Great question.
Time flies, but it has been awhile since I sessioned with someone new. One Mistress, an Amazonian fitness trainer/athlete who didn't live in my city, at the end nothing happened. It was our first session she offered (ordered?) to lift my then 225 lbs. or so in her arms, walk across her hotel room with me, and threw me on the bed. She then body scissored me. I was physically and emotionally in deep subspace almost immediately. I was too intimidated to ask to pleasure myself as time ran out. A couple of hours later I called the Mistress back I asked permission to pleasure myself. She was pleased by my request and purred on the phone, "Text me when you have completed your task, my pet" and hung up the phone. Another time we met in S.F. She was on tour and I was at a convention. It was an epic late afternoon/early evening session, ending with me giving her full body worship. When I requested to pleasure myself in front of her, the Mistress said no, she was too tired. I went back to my hotel aroused and, again in deep subspace. I had a restless night and, getting some courage, texted her early the next morning saying what I great time I had and if I could pleasure myself. She called me back and seductively approved, telling me I should do so immediately to start the day, and hung up the phone.
I can't tell you how refreshed I felt at the convention that day after performing my task, LOL! I called her from the airport that night, since I was taking the red-eye home, and we really had a laugh about it. Her motto, whenever I asked too many questions about planning our once or twice a year sessions, Mistress would say, "Anticipation my pet, anticipation. That's the key."
