Good topic. In my bachelor days, I would take the Domme I was seeing at the time and, sometimes, a few of her girlfriends on vacations. You get to know a lot about someone by spending that kind of time together. The social aspect heightened the experience I was seeking at the time. Knowing about their private relationships didn't matter in terms of session interaction. If anything, being friends outside of session enhanced the experience because they knew me too and right down to the buttons to push. Even back then I noticed that a lot of young women are fluid. That was kind of a turn on but, in session, my headspace was all about the Domme and me.