My wife and I play light in comparisons to others. It was all a slow progression through comfort zones there. But, when ya fall in love with a beautiful woman everything suddenly ends up on the table. It was venturing out to parties associating with other people that was hard for me. It was like walking into someone's bedroom or inviting them into yours that hung me up. Once that ice was broken, it was freeing for both me and my wife. We enjoy our occasional parties. I've gotten used to seeing nude people walking around casually. I haven't played in public yet. I don't want anyone galking at my wife. We are moving through the zones though. I don't know where will end up but the ride has been fun.