Oliver, glad you made it over here. That is all you can do when you lose touch with a valued dominatrix, just hope that they are doing well.
I was going to post, what I now think, is a self-serving thread that touches on this issue. There were at least two dominas I saw rather regularly in the mid to late '90s in Manhattan I'd love to know what happened to them. Mistress Paloma, a Latina in her 30s who worked at a dungeon on West 14th St. & 6th Avenue. It might have been called "Leather Ladies," but memories fade. I do know it was part owned by Mistress Belle De Jour, who I knew since the '70s when I was a college kid. She told me she'd be perfect for my "jungle" roleplay and, as usual, Belle was correct. I'll just say that Paloma looked like a curvier, sexier and more gorgeous version of Jennifer Lopez, with a wonderful dominant attitude. Mistress Tyra worked out of an apartment dungeon with Mistress Lissette, who had a print & online ads. Tyra was a tall brunette, a little bit like "fashion model meets Bettie Page." Mysterious, assertive and one of the last Mistresses to ask me if she could train a potential new Mistress in our session. (That happened to me four times with three different Mistresses... very lucky.)
Looking back, some of the Mistresses I served really enjoyed doing it. Others came and went to support themselves, but were good at it. I only hope that all of them I met are all happy and healthy now since they gave me plenty of enjoyment and memories.
