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Ever watch the show on Amazon Prime called "The Boys"? It's a "superhero" movie where the superheroes aren't really good people and they are marketed by a giant, soulless, amoral corporation. It's not a pleasant universe to be in.

The show is over the top in a lot of ways - sex is one of them. It's a bit shocking.

I watched an episode with some people earlier today. There were topics like adult breastfeeding and one of the rich, retired 'Batman' types of superheros had a secret 'cave' that was a BDSM dungeon (complete with a chained, ball gagged gimp who was jumping around making noise. "Who is THAT?" Somebody onscreen asked. "Oh, that's just my old sidekick. I keep him locked up down here.")

The retired hero lured an unsuspecting guy into the dungeon, and got him cuffed to a spanking bench, and then one of the women executives of this soulless corporation walked in, and started spanking him or something. She loved it. Clearly she and the Batman guy were way into it.

Some asked me "Damn. How does a person find this sort of stuff fun?"

"It's like hot wings," I said. "Most people start off trying mild wings. And they maybe like them. Then, maybe a few months or years later, maybe they order wings again, but this time they try medium. Then, maybe later they want wings again, but this time maybe they want more, so they order hot wings. And maybe they love that, so they go get even hotter wings, and then go to nuclear wings... "

"And then one day they find they bought a spanking bench and a cross and leather toys... But typically this sort of stuff (gesturing to the screen) is advanced and something a person works up to over years or decades. "

"Also, not everyone likes chicken or spicey shit. Hot wings aren't for everyone."

"Besides, this shit in this episode is nuts. Don't ever let anyone tie you up like this if you don't absolutely 100% trust them. And this shit in this episode is just over the top shit for shock value."

I watched the first two seasons. I started losing interest in season three. The writers aren't afraid to go dark and gory, a little too much for my taste. But, it is a good series with creative writers.

You hot wing analogy sums it up. Order the mild wings one day on a whim and within a year, it is full on breathing fire.

Yup, that's me. Years ago I was drawn to the sensual theatricality nature of the scene, but a bit paranoid of being outed. My tastes broadened in the past 12, 15 years, doing things I would never have considered years before. An hour or so ago I emailed my Mistress to see if she will be available tomorrow or Labor Day and described a session that, for me, is out there. Will report back if it happens.

Exactly. I started off with a huge foot high heel and nude nylon fetish and a masochistic desire for pain but no marks. Over 40 years I’ve done stuff I never thought I’d do like strapon ,sounds , forced bi, choke outs, piercing and being kidnapped off the streets of nyc. It was a gradual descent or ascent if you like to call it that I think and while I have little opportunity to session right now the desire is as strong as ever.

That is how it started with me. First, it was just rubbing my girlfriend's feet. Then, a little kiss now and then on her toes. I kept telling myself that it was no big deal and just a sign of affection. 3 years later, I'm taking my Mistress and her friends on a tropical vacation and playing cabana boy for all of them. Full on foot worship, preparing dinner in a g-string and bow tie and, one of my fondest memories was being on all fours under the table being used as a foot rest and anything else they wanted.

I was nuclear from the start. Being a young college student finding a Domme who would take me to that point was the challenge. I'd save up tip money from waiting tables only to get a mild session. Eventually, I met a mature Domme by the name of Leslie Savage. She blew my doors off. But, I know I needed more than an hour. She told me that if I saved up enough for 2 hours that I could work of the other 2 doing work around her apartment and running errands for her. My grades struggled that semester but I came up with it. She took me all of the way from sensory deprivation, to total rubber encasement, multiple suspension positions and single tailed to the point of literal tears. After that, I could never get enough. I knew then I had to go to grad school to afford these indulgences for the rest of my life.

Ha! Yeah... The show is a little played out. Interesting premise, good for a couple of seasons, but yeah... Getting old. They do shock value for the sake of being shocking.

And heh... I remember my very first play party. A Domme asked me to play, but I was too shy to get naked in front of strangers. How times have changed.

Ha!

I was supposed to be a part of a kidnapping scene, and it just fell apart because of too much drama.

Kidnapped off the streets of NYC? That's gotta be a hell of a story that warrants it's own post.

That sounds fantastic!