In my experience when I sessioned with a Mistress for the first time a discussion is necessary, then session, maybe even the second or third time.
However when I've been a regular with a Mistress and we know each other well, knowing that I'd start immediately as soon as I arrive at the Mistress' dungeon, home or hotel room builds up the anticipation dramatically. I can recite many instances.
My favorite, the one I've done several times over the years with my longtime Mistress, is going to her apartment and texting her when I park my car. I ring the bell at her condo building, she rings me in, I go up the elevator and she leaves her apartment door unlocked. I enter, there are no lights on and there is a long hallway at her entrance. I hear a command, "LOCK BOTH LOCKS!" When she hears them click, Mistress commands, "REMOVE YOUR SHOES AND CLOTHES, SLUT!" I do it but I still can't see her. She is in a living room that has a curtain at its archway. When she hears me walk towards the curtain she says, "ENTER." My heart is usually pounding, I never know what kind of lighting she will use, if the window shades will be open, or what she will be wearing. The only surprise I have for her is what kind of thong or covering I will be wearing. I never know what we will do since we know each other for so long and there are a wide variety of activities she can pick from. It is very seductive, sexy and dramatic.
