Put yourself in my shoes for a minute. I'm in a same sex relationship that will likely result in marriage. It is a good possibility that we will not have children. But, we have very strong family values and are closer to the young people in our families than most aunts. For him to say that Democrats are anti family was a slap in the face to many types of people, including women in same sex relationships. For the first time, I was considering voting for a Republican. If Vance stays on the ticket it will probably have me sitting out of the election. His backhanded apology only made it worse. He has no place to make judgements on decisions that women make regarding procreation.